DIVORCE !!!!!!!

DIVORCE
1) LEGAL PERMISSION TO SEPARATE FROM ONES MARRIED PARTNER AND TO MARRY SOMEONE ELES IF SO DESIRED 2) SEPARATION OFFICIALLY TO END A MARRIAGE

WE AS PARENTS ( AS DIVORCED PARENTS OR REMARRIED PARENTS) WHAT HAVE WE DONE TO OUR CHILDREN ? WE HAVE TO FAR FROM THE BIBLE ABOUT MARRIAGE. WE HAVE SHOWED OUR CHILDREN IF YOU CANT GET ALONG DIVORCE THEM THEN ON TO THE NEXT. BUT AS FOR PARENTS WHEN WE MARRY WE DO THINK IT IS FOR LIFE. WHAT HAPPENS ? WHY ARE WE GOING SO FAR FROM THE BIBLE, OUR PARENTS & OUR GRANDPARENTS. I CANT SAY FOR MY PARENTS I AM FROM A DIVORCE SET OF PARENTS. BUT NOT GRANDPARENTS. I TEASE MY SISTER-N-LAW ABOUT HAVING ANOTHER CHILD SHE ALWAYS SMILES AT ME AND SAYS NOT RIGHT NOW LET ME ENJOY MARCUS NOW. I SEE HER POINT IN A WAY NO ONE KNOWS WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS. I HAVE 1 NIECE THAT HAS 2 BROTHERS BY DIFFERENT DADS 2 SISITER AND A BROTHER BY A DIFFERENT MOM. HER MOM HAS BEEN MARRIED 4 TIMES AND A COUPLE OF LIVE INS. THEN ANOTHER NIECE THAT HAS 2 SISTER FROM HER MOM BY ANOTHER DAD AND A BROTHER BY ANOTHER MOM AND. A FRIEND THAT HAS BEEN MARRIED 7 TIMES 3 TO THE SAME MAN SO SHE SAYS THAT DONT COUNT. I HAVE FAMILY MEMEBERS THAT HAVE MARRIED DIFFERENT TIMES. MY SELF MARRIED TWICE DIVORCED ONCE. WHAT IS GOING ON FOLKS WE AS PARENTS NEED TO THINK THINGS OVER READ OUR BIBLES MORE AND UNDERSTAND THEM.WE AS PARENTS KNOW HOW IT HURTS WHEN WE GO THOUGH IT WHAT ABOUT OUR CHILDEREN. THEN THEY BECOME ADULTS AND GO THOUGH THE SAME THING. YES THERE ARE SOME REASONS FOR DIVORCE. WE KNOW THEY HAVE TO GROW UP AND WE KNOW THEY GO THOUGH CHANGES ALSO THAT IS PART OF LIFE. BUT FOLKSWE NEED TO LOOK BACK ON OUR GRANDPARENTS AND READ OUR BIBLES MORE. TEACH OUR CHILDEREN TO READ AND UNDERSTAND THE BIBLE. WE NEED TO STOP THE CYCLE. MY YOUNGEST SON IS GOING THOUGH IT. HE HAS BEEN MARRIED A LITTLE OVER 3 YEARS AND HAS BEEN WITH MY DAUGHTER-N-LAW FOR OVER 4 YEARS.I DONT LIKE TO SEE MY CHILDEREN HURT WHEN THEY HURT I HURT. I WISH I COULD GO THOUGH IT INSTEAD OF HIM. I WISH THE CIRCLE WOULD STOP !!!!! WHAT HAVE WE DONE TO OUR CHILDEREN? WHAT ARE WE TEACHING THEM? WHAT HAVE WE TAUGHT THEM? I DONT WANT TO SEE HER HURT I DONT WANT HER TO GO THOUGH IT. WHEN MY FIRST HUSBAND (THE BOYS DAD) GOT OUR DIVORCE . I WENT TO MY GRANDPARENTS HOUSE AND WAS SITTING ON THE FRONT PORCH WITH MY GRANDPA SPILLING MY GUTS CRYING AND CARRYING ON. HE SAT THERE AND LET ME TELL MY STORY HE WAS SO CALM AND QUIT AND WITH A CALM VOICE HE SAID PUDDIN THERE ARE 3 SIDES TO EVERY STORY THERE IS YOURS THERE IS ALLEN AN THERE IS THE TRUTH. IT MADE ME DO A LOT OF THINKING OF THE YEARS. SO A LONG STORY SHORT FOLKS WE ALL NEED TO SOME DEEP THINKING ABOUT OUR SELFS, OUR CHILDEREN LIFE, THE FUTURE OF OUR NATION. WE ALL NEED TO LOOK DEEP IN THE BIBLE AND READ,STUFY & BELIVE IT. PLEASE REMEMBER ME IN YOUR PRAYERS THAT I WILL & CAN SAY THE RIGHT THING TO EASE HIS PAIN AND HELP STOP THE CYCLE. GOD BLESS EVERYONE
RENA (PUDDIN)